Resistance between tip and ring on most inputs

Hello all!
I am getting weird crosstalk problems on most of my inputs (an input triggers every other that has a cable connected, but not the disconnected ones). After a lot of testing, it so happens that on most of the pads (snare, all toms, some auxes, crash, ride) I'm reading a 10.9K - 11Kohm resistance between tip and ring (and between rings and tips of any two inputs which have this problem) with the digital board connected and no power. Without it, I measure no continuity (as I think it should be).
I'm 99% sure it's due to poor etching (hairline shorts on the digital board), since I've scrubbed everything with isopropyl alcohol a few times and checked visually and with a tester for shorts but could find none. The question I have is, on which pins of the digital to analog board connector should I check for this resistance, in order to find the hairline short (if it is indeed a hairline short)?
I don't want to have to re-etch the digital board pcb since I'm pretty sure it's just something really small and I'm too dumb to find it - and I risk having the same problem all over again. This is quite an expensive project here in Brazil, so I'm trying to avoid having to buy most of the components again (especially the IC and processor sockets) and I'm pretty sure I'd ruin them if I tried to salvage them again (they were on another digital board that had a track sucked out along with the solder).
If it's not a short, what could it be?
My build is the current Dmitri dual boards, latest firmwares with ATMEGA644@20MHz, PIC@12MHz, no 6n138 since I coudn't find it here. Everything else works, LCD, buttons, programming, inputs individually work very well.
It's likely that I'll find it sooner or later, but if someone has a light to shed on this please help, I'm dying to put this baby to work and make envy to all my drummer friends!
EDIT: ATMEGA644, not 622! Sorry!
I am getting weird crosstalk problems on most of my inputs (an input triggers every other that has a cable connected, but not the disconnected ones). After a lot of testing, it so happens that on most of the pads (snare, all toms, some auxes, crash, ride) I'm reading a 10.9K - 11Kohm resistance between tip and ring (and between rings and tips of any two inputs which have this problem) with the digital board connected and no power. Without it, I measure no continuity (as I think it should be).
I'm 99% sure it's due to poor etching (hairline shorts on the digital board), since I've scrubbed everything with isopropyl alcohol a few times and checked visually and with a tester for shorts but could find none. The question I have is, on which pins of the digital to analog board connector should I check for this resistance, in order to find the hairline short (if it is indeed a hairline short)?
I don't want to have to re-etch the digital board pcb since I'm pretty sure it's just something really small and I'm too dumb to find it - and I risk having the same problem all over again. This is quite an expensive project here in Brazil, so I'm trying to avoid having to buy most of the components again (especially the IC and processor sockets) and I'm pretty sure I'd ruin them if I tried to salvage them again (they were on another digital board that had a track sucked out along with the solder).
If it's not a short, what could it be?
My build is the current Dmitri dual boards, latest firmwares with ATMEGA644@20MHz, PIC@12MHz, no 6n138 since I coudn't find it here. Everything else works, LCD, buttons, programming, inputs individually work very well.
It's likely that I'll find it sooner or later, but if someone has a light to shed on this please help, I'm dying to put this baby to work and make envy to all my drummer friends!

EDIT: ATMEGA644, not 622! Sorry!