BFD2 and Superior Drummer 2 : hardware related issues

I'de like to have you guy's opnion about these 2 softwares.
I'm currently using BFD2, and as opposed to NI Battery 3 that I used to have, I feel BFD2 sounds lot more realistic and is way easier to set up.
BUT...
BFD2 requires more than my computer can offer and this is becoming really anoying : sounds that are randomly "choked" or should i say "cut off" + latency issues that appear everytime I use more than 4 instruments (cymbals, variable snare and mostly variable hi-hat) really give me a hard time!!!
I already read on BFD2 forum that the minimum requirement specified in the soft's technical sheet is not very accurate. And I can confirm it isn't!!
I currently have a Pentium Dual Core 1.73GHz, 4GB of RAM (only 3GB since I'm running Windows XP), and a M-Audio Firewire 410.
I already tried everything I could to reduce these problems :
- turned off firewall and Anti-Virus + stop automatic update
- Both my computer and my FW410 are plugged into the wall
- Played with buffersize and sample rate
- Disable every device not required by my computer when using BFD2 (network adapter+Realtek controller)
- Used Asio4all drivers
My M-audio really helps for the latency issues, but the random cymbal sounds being choked are still occuring and these are VERRRRY annoying.
Since I now have a variable hi-hat, 3 zone Yamaha style cymbals, and since I'm definately looking for the most realistic (acoustic sound-like) drum soft, I was wondering if maybe Superior Drummer would be a better option : less demanding in terms of system requirements and maybe offer even better results in terms of sound relalism ?
I'm currently using BFD2, and as opposed to NI Battery 3 that I used to have, I feel BFD2 sounds lot more realistic and is way easier to set up.
BUT...
BFD2 requires more than my computer can offer and this is becoming really anoying : sounds that are randomly "choked" or should i say "cut off" + latency issues that appear everytime I use more than 4 instruments (cymbals, variable snare and mostly variable hi-hat) really give me a hard time!!!
I already read on BFD2 forum that the minimum requirement specified in the soft's technical sheet is not very accurate. And I can confirm it isn't!!
I currently have a Pentium Dual Core 1.73GHz, 4GB of RAM (only 3GB since I'm running Windows XP), and a M-Audio Firewire 410.
I already tried everything I could to reduce these problems :
- turned off firewall and Anti-Virus + stop automatic update
- Both my computer and my FW410 are plugged into the wall
- Played with buffersize and sample rate
- Disable every device not required by my computer when using BFD2 (network adapter+Realtek controller)
- Used Asio4all drivers
My M-audio really helps for the latency issues, but the random cymbal sounds being choked are still occuring and these are VERRRRY annoying.
Since I now have a variable hi-hat, 3 zone Yamaha style cymbals, and since I'm definately looking for the most realistic (acoustic sound-like) drum soft, I was wondering if maybe Superior Drummer would be a better option : less demanding in terms of system requirements and maybe offer even better results in terms of sound relalism ?